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Building Strong Communities Abroad: A Guide to Purpose, Belonging, and Resilience
In our previous article, we read about the importance of community, we learned its importance and impact. We must be wondering how we build communities in the spaces we live in? Living abroad, whether for study, work, purposeful migration, or seeking refuge, offers unique opportunities and challenges. Building a strong community is one of the most important aspects of this experience. Communities provide a sense of belonging, purpose and resilience. In this article, we explore how to cultivate meaningful connections and why these communities matter, especially for those living far from home.
Belonging in a New Environment:
When living abroad, it is essential to feel a sense of belonging. A thriving community provides kinship, trust, and psychological safety. Whether in a professional or social setting, people should feel they can bring their whole selves to the community without fear of judgment. For example, a new migrant starting a job in a foreign country may initially feel out of place. However, when colleagues embrace them and value their contributions, they begin to feel that they belong.
Building a community of trust means providing space for personal growth. It allows individuals to develop new skills while feeling supported by those around them. In such environments, individuals are not just working, they are growing together as a group.
As Plato famously said “ The part cannot be well unless the whole is well”.
Additionally, research has shown that tighter-knit networks provide more robust support systems. A study by Ohio State University suggests that individuals feel more connected when their connections know each other, enhancing the feeling of community.
Strengthening Connection from Afar:
When living abroad, staying in touch with people, even virtually, is crucial. Technology has made it easier to maintain connections through video calls, messaging, or social media. Simple actions like sending a quick message or making a voice call can strengthen bonds. According to the University of Texas at Austin, voice calls can create stronger connections than text messages, helping individuals feel more supported, even from a distance.
Furthermore, showing compassion is vital for fostering a community. A small gesture, such as inviting a new friend for a coffee or asking for input on a project, can make someone feel valued. These acts of kindness enhance the sense of belonging and contribute to the overall strength of the community.
Community’s Role in Performance and Resilience:
Communities also play a key role in enhancing individual performance and resilience. Studies, such as those by Deloitte, have shown that strong peer relationships are vital for maintaining sustainable high performance. In high-pressure environments, like those many people face abroad, having a solid support system helps individuals manage stress and overcome challenges. Whether it is a colleague providing advice or a friend offering emotional support, the presence of a community enables individuals to thrive despite obstacles.
Assessing and Strengthening Your Community
It’s important to regularly assess the quality of the communities you are a part of. Here are some of the questions you can ask yourself:
1. Are these groups allowing you to be your authentic self?
2. Are they meeting your emotional and social needs?
If not, it may be time to seek out new communities that foster deeper connections. Alternatively, if you are a part of a supportive and authentic community, consider how you can ensure others feel included. Creating a culture of belonging requires active efforts, but the rewards are immeasurable.
Fostering Community as Individual and Leaders:
As Individuals and leaders, we have a responsibility to foster inclusive environments. By engaging in open conversations and supporting one another’s growth, we create stronger communities. Whether in a workplace, university or social group, promoting connection begins with us. As leaders, setting the tone for inclusivity ensures a cohesive community.
The role of the community in enhancing individual growth and well-being cannot be overstated. By nurturing meaningful relationships, whether through professional networks, social groups or personal connections, we not only enrich our own lives but also contribute to building a resilient and supportive society. As we build communities, we create spaces where everyone can thrive, regardless of where they come from.
Reference:
2. https://medium.com/@econicco/the-role-of-community-in-individual-leadership-growth-ef517c37d53e
Further Readings:
Boyer, E. T., & Mitgang, L. (1996). Building community. Princeton, NJ: The Carnegie Foundation for the Advancement of Teaching.
Brown, M. J. (2006). Building powerful community organizations. Arlington, MA: Long Haul.
Schlossberg, N. K. (1989). Marginality and mattering: Key issues in building community. New directions for student services, 48(1), 5-15.